The caste system is a big
headache for all lovers, because
they have to be very cautious of
the society. Is it good to marry a
girl or boy from other caste?
inter caste marriages is one of the things which are growing every seconds but the orthodox people are not ready to accept them.As far as the success of inter caste marriages is concerned,that depends it depends on the people who are getting married. imagine a person who is very much attached to the rituals of his caste(some rituals are different for different castes) marries some one who belongs to another caste, there certainly will be some problems arising among them.but if the caste for them are nothing but just a name then there will be no such problem.so it depends entirely on you.There sould be no restriction on intercast marriages.As everybody has it's own life n one shold have right 2 live in it's own way.
People have realized that a
successful marriage is not
dependent on factors such as
same caste and religion. It is on
the other hand, built on the
aspects of mutual understanding
and compatibility. It is how well
the two understand each other's
need and feel for your partner. It
is not necessary that you have to
belong to the same community
or caste to understand your
spouse better. Today, there are
ample of examples when two
people from totally different
background and lifestyle come
together and spend their entire
life happy with each other,
thanks to education.
Education has broadened the
periphery of thinking and helped
people develop analytical powers.
It has not only altered their
perception about life, but also
about social concerns such as
marriage and relationship. Inter
caste and inter religion
marriages serves as a beacon
light for social equality. In order
to break the perils of caste-
system, it has becomes
incumbent that there should be
inter-caste marriages. Marriage is
mostly dependent on true love
and feeling and once this is
achieved, caste and religion all
becomes secondary issues.
With the changing social scenario, a change in the mindset of the people can be seen, but mostly among the city people. Though people in cities have learned the nuances of caste system and the positives of inter-caste marriage,the society of Nepal has still not welcomes the concept of inter-caste marriages. In Nepal, even today people are very rigid in matters of marriages. They prefer that their sons and daughters should marry in the same caste and community; else they disown their son/daughter. Though there have been numerous incidents of the wife attempting suicide or being murdered, this has still not evaded the theory of caste system. People need to be taught about the menaces of caste system and initiatives should be taken to fight against it. After all, a marriage is all about coming together of two souls, irrespective of social background and class....!!
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headache for all lovers, because
they have to be very cautious of
the society. Is it good to marry a
girl or boy from other caste?
inter caste marriages is one of the things which are growing every seconds but the orthodox people are not ready to accept them.As far as the success of inter caste marriages is concerned,that depends it depends on the people who are getting married. imagine a person who is very much attached to the rituals of his caste(some rituals are different for different castes) marries some one who belongs to another caste, there certainly will be some problems arising among them.but if the caste for them are nothing but just a name then there will be no such problem.so it depends entirely on you.There sould be no restriction on intercast marriages.As everybody has it's own life n one shold have right 2 live in it's own way.
People have realized that a
successful marriage is not
dependent on factors such as
same caste and religion. It is on
the other hand, built on the
aspects of mutual understanding
and compatibility. It is how well
the two understand each other's
need and feel for your partner. It
is not necessary that you have to
belong to the same community
or caste to understand your
spouse better. Today, there are
ample of examples when two
people from totally different
background and lifestyle come
together and spend their entire
life happy with each other,
thanks to education.
Education has broadened the
periphery of thinking and helped
people develop analytical powers.
It has not only altered their
perception about life, but also
about social concerns such as
marriage and relationship. Inter
caste and inter religion
marriages serves as a beacon
light for social equality. In order
to break the perils of caste-
system, it has becomes
incumbent that there should be
inter-caste marriages. Marriage is
mostly dependent on true love
and feeling and once this is
achieved, caste and religion all
becomes secondary issues.
With the changing social scenario, a change in the mindset of the people can be seen, but mostly among the city people. Though people in cities have learned the nuances of caste system and the positives of inter-caste marriage,the society of Nepal has still not welcomes the concept of inter-caste marriages. In Nepal, even today people are very rigid in matters of marriages. They prefer that their sons and daughters should marry in the same caste and community; else they disown their son/daughter. Though there have been numerous incidents of the wife attempting suicide or being murdered, this has still not evaded the theory of caste system. People need to be taught about the menaces of caste system and initiatives should be taken to fight against it. After all, a marriage is all about coming together of two souls, irrespective of social background and class....!!
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